Do you ever find yourself wondering something a lot, a question you’d really like a reasonable answer for? I do all the time. Sometimes it’s something silly. Sometimes it’s something far more mundane and useful. I haven’t typically blogged about these things, because I didn’t really think about it. Well, today I found myself contemplating one of my usual quandaries and realized that other people might wonder them too. So I thought it might be fun, and useful to someone, to occasionally blog about these things. Maybe the comments will help someone out – maybe me, maybe you, maybe noone. Maybe just the conversation will be interesting, or fun or helpful, depending on the topic. So, let’s talk.

My youngest son (14) has issues pooping on the potty. It isn’t happening. I don’t know specifically why, but I personally think he may not completely “get” the sensation or feeling. He is developmentally delayed, for those that didn’t know or forgot. So, almost every afternoon he has an accident. He wears underwear.
Now thinking back to when my brothers were potty training, I recall my Mom used to soak the underwear in the sink for a while before putting them into the wash. I never actually asked her why she did it. I just always presumed that it was to loosen everything and get that stuff off of there before sending it to the washing machine. Anyway. This is what I now do. It’s gross, but something has to be done before it hits the wash. The thing is, my oldest son (18) has very subtly let me know that it bothers him to have underwear soaking in the sink in the bathroom, where his friends might go. He told me in a not so subtle way as well. “Mom. A sink of crappy water is freaking gross.” Which I get. So it leaves me wondering how other people handle soiled underwear before sending it to the washing machine.

Anna
Saturday 8th of September 2018
I started buying just black pants for my son. Do all the usual cleaning stuff as well but they last so much longer.
Cassie @ Southeast by Midwest
Sunday 13th of April 2014
When we were potty training my niece what we would was get rid of the "big" parts. We would then run the stained clothes under some water and soak in a bucket in the laundry room out of the way.
Erica
Saturday 12th of April 2014
Awesome advice. If you've got underwear you've got to face this at some time or another! Thank you!
Desiree M.
Saturday 12th of April 2014
I'm not looking forward to soiled underwear with my 2 year old. Potty training is just getting started.
Melissa
Friday 11th of April 2014
With 3 kids, I definitely need to do this! I like the idea of the bucket in the laundry room.